1Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. 2Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. Galatians 6:1-2
Have you noticed how guilt, shame, and fear generate violence?
The guilty one must be punished.
The shameful one must be removed.
The the one who produces fear must be controlled.
In the fellowship of the church spiritual maturity has its wisdom that avoids violent and dominating expressions in the pursuit of change.
Thus Paul who once subscribed to violence (Acts 9) as a way to effect change, now avoids it in the grace of Jesus.
If in your close circle of friendship you see one caught in a sin, seek to restore them gently.
Restoration occurs first to Jesus, and then toward self and others.
Restoration creates space to discover what one truly wants.
Restoration sheds light on the nature of the trap created by sin.
Restoration creates availability for company under this burden.
Restoration continually celebrates the love of Jesus in the Gospel simultaneously showing how He bears the weight of our guilt, shame, and fear at the Cross.